Over the years we lost touch, but tonight I got e-mail from him. He asked if I "remembered" him. I'd seen his name come up on geneaology boards, but I was afraid to contact him after all these years (I last heard from him when I got an invitation to his wedding that arrived a week after the wedding).
I am soooo glad to hear from him. I hope to meet his wife and kids the next time I'm in NJ. w00t!